Split the Baby: Lauren Rhoades in Conversation with Benjamin Morris
September 18, 2025
On September 18th, 2025, MSJE hosted writers Lauren Rhoades and Benjamin Morris for an interfaith discussion on place, memory, and cultural and spiritual identity. Together they discussed Rhoades’s debut book "Split the Baby: A Memoir in Pieces," which chronicles the toll of divorce and family rupture from the perspective of a child who was nearly torn in two. Lauren Rhoades retells her experience of growing up caught between two homes run by equally strong women: a fervently Catholic stepmother and a deeply sensitive Jewish mother. Pulled toward radically distinct family cultures with rich but conflicting religious traditions, the young girl struggles to reconcile her stepmother’s possessive charm with her mother’s fierce and vulnerable love. Working with a trove of salvaged documents—including psychological evaluations, legal records, and personal family diaries—Rhoades searches for answers to questions of identity, spirituality, and the relationships that most deeply shape us.